I recently went to a seminar where the leader declared, “I Love my husband because I say so”. This was one of the most powerful things I’ve ever heard.
Society tells us that we can’t choose the ones we love, but this notion is ridiculous. The idea of being in love is controlled by some chemical reaction in our brain. That same chemical reaction can be triggered by fear, anxiety, and excitement. All of which are not always associated with happiness.
You can choose to love someone every single day by showing up and by taking action that brings truth to those words. Your commitment to that declaration is what will make your relationship last.